Redheaded Adventures: She did it!

On July 17th, my Mama officially graduated from college with her LPN nursing degree - 44 years after she took her first college class. I am so proud of her hardwork, tenacity to stick out the program with the rest of life swirling about, in a room full of those less experienced with the prickliness of life (and it's deep joys) and proving in the process that you can teach "mature" dogs new tricks. (Yes, inserting foleys in certain cavities, deciphering labwork levels and reading 26 chapters a week qualify as "tricks")

I was so honored she chose me to pin her at the nurse pinning ceremony while her family looked on - all the grandkids got to cheer Grandma and see a glimpse of a strong (though sometimes tired and a little covered with the mud of life) woman who has always worked hard at trying new things, trying to improve and always wanting to help others even when kicking back on the porch with a cup of coffee would be preferable.

She really is an amazing woman! She loves her family - her sisters, her brother, her Daddy, her husband, her children and she loves her grandchildren well (limitless popsicle night at Grandma camp - need I say more?). She teaches Sunday school to little ones, reads bedtime stories to sleepy grandkids, sweeps crumbs off the floor, divides pills each week, makes phone calls, keeps appointments, and keeps the important Promises of life that have shaped her - especially the one that she said 40 years ago with a little "I do". She can repair a toilet, shoot an armadillo at night with a flashlight in one hand, wrangle cattle, doctor dogs, grow violets and can order a Grande Latte at any Starbucks between Atlanta and home. In all these things it's the heart behind that is precious - not just the service. I'm better able to appreciate that heart as I grow - as I can see behind the chaos. She's amazing!

I didn't say perfect - she's made plenty of mistakes and will make plenty more - she has been known to burn a batch of cookies, forget a couple heads of lettuce in the fridge a few weeks past their usefulness, run late by about 2 hours to many events, hot glue her fingers together maybe more than once or speak harshly to those she loves BUT she keeps on...in all these things trying to improve and all the while learning to embrace who she is - learning what to let go of and what to hold to tightly. I know in some ways she's still trying to figure it out and in some ways she's embraced who she is - her limits, her challenges and they are still shaping her. They'll now shape her as she steps into the role of a nurse to those in her community who are hurting. I know she will be a blessing and hopefully enjoy the rewarding work of nursing.

I'm learning too as I journey in the "prickliness of life" from this amazing woman and from the LORD that holds all things together for us. No excuses. Repent. Love. Change. Move on. Life is messier than we hope it would be, but in the hurt and the hard we can change for the better or sit in the mud and wallow. We've done it both. I'm messy from life but there's no reset button to our circumstances - they're still there but our perspective, heart and strength are changed and renewed by repentance and an eternal LOVE that NEVER FAILS. The sun still rises on the same cow patties at the farm and the crumbs on my floor and the tensions of life but the HOPE that is given by keeping on with one foot in front of the other...and trusting - that's a HOPE that can change your day.

I love you MOM!

Mama's nurse pinning ceremony and Florence Nightingale lamp lighting ceremony